Selfless and Selfabsolutelynothing
Often times, we create victims of ourselves and seemingly narcissistic tendencies in others by being "too nice" and refusing to accept anything for things we do.
Eventually, people believe it when we say, "It's no trouble, don't worry about it, don't mention it..." etc.
The "too nice" person is rooted in low self-worth, refusing to accept anything good towards themselves, and believing it to be selfless as if it's a good thing.
There's a big difference between self-less and self-absolutely-nothing.
Accepting gratefully, boundaries, and allowing others to give and do will create equal relationships instead of givers vs. takers.
~Doe Zantamata
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